Erotic Dominance Intensive with Cleo DuBois

For Women:

April 8th and 9th
San Francisco
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Why It’s so Frustrating to Educate Kink and BDSM

This is quite possibly the best essay I’ve ever read arguing for more education of the writers who wish to condemn kink and BDSM. Read more

Let’s talk about Orgasm!

Mary Roach is a hilarious and provocative writer. I love her book “Stiff” on the history of the cadaver, and of course “Boink” has become the sexpert’s staple. Read more

Erotic Dominance Intensive for Men with Cleo DuBois

March 9th and 10th
San Francisco
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The Doctor Is In! – Medical Play from Fantasy to Heavy Edge with Doctor’ Eve.

Join “Doctor” Eve as she provides a broad introduction to this fantastic form of play. Medical play is wonderfully suited to expressing Dominance and submission, and can involve anything from fantasy play to extreme procedures. Read more

Out With the Old and In With the New? Our Old Friend Change.

True life is lived when tiny changes occur.
Leo Tolstoy

Here we are, those wild and wacky Gregorian Calendar users, about to embark upon another “new” year – full of hope for change – and possibly full of new year resolutions about our health, happiness, and yes, maybe even our sex lives. Read more

Bridging Kink, Sex and Spirit

The Fuck Is Swifter Than The Cry: Raping With Intent and Care
Saturday November 10th. For more about the Dark Odyssey Surrender event November 9th – 12th, Click here

Bondassage Bootcamp:

Private Class Locally in SF for Bondassage Practitioners with Jaeleen Bennis
Eve Minax: Saturday October 20th Closed Class

My Old Friend Humanstic Sex Therapy

I have been agonizing over this controversy for years. To what extent do sex coaches practice “hands on” work and to what extent do we remain “hands off”? It’s been my practice to utilize each, depending on the circumstance, person, and their immediate needs. Read more