What’s your Sexual Personality Type?

Whats your Meyers Briggs Type Indicator and How does it Affect Your Sexuality

I am fascinated by Human Behavior, especially with regard to how certain personality types interact with others and in particular how they play out relationally and sexually. The Meyers Brigg standard of testing is quite popular and widely regarded. I, of course, take everything with a grain of salt, but it’s always good to be informed. Go here for more details on MBTI .

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Parenting and Sex Positivity: Kudos to Airial Clark

Although I am not a parent, I know many of you are. I also realize how difficult it must be to make decisions around your sexuality and parenting: How do they co-exist?

Airial Clark addresses this issue and more, brava!

Exciting In Depth Interview with Me by Monika from Sexploration With Monika

Usually Monika, from Sexploration with Monika, and I have a brief chat about an upcoming or current event. I really love this in depth interview because I get to speak a bit more about my work, how it’s evolving and the intersections of Read more

Beyond Fifty Shades of Grey?

I love thinking in grey, monochromes, various colors…black and white has simply never cut it for me. That’s why I liked the title “Fifty Shades of Grey. Read more

A Serious Publication on Sex Work

but of course it’s based out of the Netherlands, lol…

Research for Sex Work is a publication intended for sex workers, activists, health workers, researchers, NGO staff and others. Read more

Commitment, Communcation, Compassion: Some Thoughts on D/s Relationships

Power is at the root of the human experience. Our attitudes and and beliefs — positive or negative — are all extensions of how we define and use power.
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From Medical Play to Spanking Good Fun!

It was a beautiful sunny afternoon, Mother’s Day in fact, when I was to present Medical Play from Fantasy to Heavy Edge at the Looking Glass in Oakland.  A gorgeous space if you are not familiar with it – an open loft, crisp, clear, clean, but just sultry enough for all forms of Erotic Edge Play. My demo bottm, “Patient X” accompanied me all geared up and ready for action. I had promised him that if the crowd seemed amenable, then he would be our special subject for intensive procedures. They were. I hooded Patient X into a Studio Gum respirator hood, (as demoed here, only mine is medical red) strapped him into a dental chair, pumped his cock with a made to order tube from Naughty Pumps, then left him in the care of Nurse Isabel whilst I took the patient history from our lovely female subject fresh out of the audience. After testing her nipples and  reproductive organs for sensitivity, I left her with her practicing “GP” to turn our attention back to Patient X. Several colleagues assisted me while I attached e-stim to his prostate, pierced his nipples, and catheterized him while procuring a semen specimen. Our female subject masturbated for a specimen while I took Q and A at the end.  All in a day’s work! Both patients assured me they felt much better:) My Spanking Class at Good Vibrations should be terrific tomorrow, one of the students volunteered his girl with a peachy little behind;)

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Dearest Diary,

Welcome to the October edition of the Eve Minax newsletter which is coming to you straight from my heart this fine autumnal day in San Francisco. Read more