What is Chastity?
ONLINE: Lock and Load: From Tie and Tease to Chastity Please NOTE: This will be an online class via Zoom. Zoom information will be sent…
Can BDSM Help a Relationship?
Can BDSM help a relationship? I’d like to think so. Whether the relationship is new and you’re exploring or it’s mature and you are searching…
What Does a Dominatrix Look Like?
A lot of people are talking about the Netflix show about a young Dominatrix. So far, I’d say it’s the equivalent of a waitress putting…
Five Sexy Kinky Gift Ideas!
Who doesn’t love a sexy gift? Whatever the reason, be it holiday, birthday, or just because, sexy gifts can bring laughter, joy, pleasure, intimacy, knowledge…
What is Bondassage?
An Interview with Eve Minax by Pleasure Mechanics I forget how much I know until I get a chance to talk about Erotic Domination, Integrating…
Ah, Chastity!
Ah Chastity! Controlling one’s mind is a particular pleasure for me, but I also value controlling the body as well. Of course being in charge…
How to negotiate a scene by KL Joy
Hey folks! My name is KL Joy, and I’m going to write a little today about how to negotiate a scene with a potential play…
An Education in Violation Play – Thursday, May 16th
Violation or “Rape” Play can be a highly sensitive subject. Come learn more about the whys and hows in a safe and welcoming environment! Thursday…
Let’s talk about Orgasm!
Mary Roach is a hilarious and provocative writer. I love her book “Stiff” on the history of the cadaver, and of course “Boink” has become…
My Old Friend Humanstic Sex Therapy
I have been agonizing over this controversy for years. To what extent do sex coaches practice “hands on” work and to what extent do we…