Venus In Fur San Francisco
I had a wonderful opportunity to see a production with ACT, (American Contemporary Theater), recently of Venus in Fur, and adaptation to the novella written…
Sexuality: How to Encapsulate it in a Few Minutes!
This snappy video encapsulates Gender and Sexuality Studies in one small piece. I kinda love this guy. I keep finding his videos even though I’m…
New Year Explorations, January 2014
Hello and Happy New Year Dear Sensual Explorers! Well, it’s that time of year when people start thinking about New Year’s resolutions and all the new ways of…
Ah, Chastity!
Ah Chastity! Controlling one’s mind is a particular pleasure for me, but I also value controlling the body as well. Of course being in charge…
Forget Porn Addiction, Let’s Talk About Connection: Joseph Gordon-Levitt’s “Don Jon”
I saw a movie tonight that I thought might be interesting because it is written and directed by Joseph Gordon-Levitt, (the youngest from the 90s…
October News and Events
Hello My Dear Erotic Explorers! October and November are going to be INTENSE. So instead of bludgeoning you with details, (we’ll do that another way,…
How to negotiate a scene by KL Joy
Hey folks! My name is KL Joy, and I’m going to write a little today about how to negotiate a scene with a potential play…
Help and Change: Let Me Help You Change?
As a professional coach who has worked with hundreds of people over the years, one question keeps recurring: “How could I ever tell my (current/future),…
Consent and Fantasy: Ruminations on Amanda Berry et al
What started as a Facebook post now has become a full fledged entry for me as I continue the dialogue around the horrors of what…
Power Dynamics in BDSM/Kink Relationships
An often overlooked and misunderstood topic, this essay gives a thoughtful nudge to look a bit more closely at BDSM and Kink Relationships.