Playing With Power: Dominance and Submission
Consensual Dominance and submission in relationships reflect an intentional acknowledgement and exploration of intrinsic power dynamics in an erotic fashion. These relationships draw upon…
What Does a Dominatrix Look Like to You? by Eve Minax
“Come to the edge, he said. They said: We are afraid. Come to the edge, he said. They came. He pushed them and they flew.” …
Bottoms Up! 10 Ways of Being a Great Bottom
Oftentimes people conflate the terms “bottom” and “submissive” – to which I cringe because they are distinguishable. Today we will be discussing ten of the…
Sexuality: How to Encapsulate it in a Few Minutes!
This snappy video encapsulates Gender and Sexuality Studies in one small piece. I kinda love this guy. I keep finding his videos even though I’m…
Ah, Chastity!
Ah Chastity! Controlling one’s mind is a particular pleasure for me, but I also value controlling the body as well. Of course being in charge…
Forget Porn Addiction, Let’s Talk About Connection: Joseph Gordon-Levitt’s “Don Jon”
I saw a movie tonight that I thought might be interesting because it is written and directed by Joseph Gordon-Levitt, (the youngest from the 90s…
How to negotiate a scene by KL Joy
Hey folks! My name is KL Joy, and I’m going to write a little today about how to negotiate a scene with a potential play…
Help and Change: Let Me Help You Change?
As a professional coach who has worked with hundreds of people over the years, one question keeps recurring: “How could I ever tell my (current/future),…
Consent and Fantasy: Ruminations on Amanda Berry et al
What started as a Facebook post now has become a full fledged entry for me as I continue the dialogue around the horrors of what…
Why It’s so Frustrating to Educate Kink and BDSM
This is quite possibly the best essay I’ve ever read arguing for more education of the writers who wish to condemn kink and BDSM.