Five Books for Kink/Poly Beginners
I was just responding to a follow up email from a wonderful couple who started working with me last week and I wanted to give…
Professional Dominants (and others’) BDSM Resource List
In preparing for my presentation today“If I Knew Then What I Know Now: 50 Things Every Up and Coming Professional Should Know!” at DomConLA, I…
Everybody’s Talking About Polly!
I love a good memoir, and personally, I have been trying to piece one together off and on for years. Well, some sex culture revolutionaries…
Kinky Curiosity: Finding A Perfect Provider
Recently, I’ve received several queries from folks interested in Escorts who provide kinky services. In fact, with the film production of “fifty shades of gray”…
Four Common Mistakes Masochists Make
by Eve Minax If you were to dig around the web or your local library, you will find a plethora of fictional and nonfictional work…
Oops, I Forgot My Safeword!
In the realm of BDSM and kink play, safe, sane and consensual rests as the buzz phrase to encourage newcomers to join (we’re safe!), illicit…
Tip-Top: 10 Ways of Being a Great Top!
If you read last week’s blog, then you learned about how to be a great bottom. In honor of reciprocity and equal responsibility, this week’s blog will be on How to Be a Great Top! You will find the similarities astonishing.