What Does a Dominatrix Look Like?
A lot of people are talking about the Netflix show about a young Dominatrix. So far, I’d say it’s the equivalent of a waitress putting…
Healing Through BDSM
How does BDSM facilitate personal growth? If you’ve been following my writing over the years, you may have learned that I live with transgenerational trauma…
Managing Pyschic Waste in the New Year
Previously published in Spirit of Desire edited by Lee Harrington. Managing Psychic Waste: Transcendence Through Humiliation You say I hold the key and perhaps I…
Oops, I Forgot My Safeword!
In the realm of BDSM and kink play, safe, sane and consensual rests as the buzz phrase to encourage newcomers to join (we’re safe!), illicit…